So, after having seen or witnessed a few things that rubbed me the wrong way, I am writing about them to get it off my chest and to ask the age old question: "Where have our manners gone?"
My first incident was on Saturday morning. December 11, 2010. I was taking the metro to go to work in the morning. I got on the metro and I was rushing from the bust to the metro platform. I didn't have the time to blow my nose. The first moment of pause that I had was when I got onto the metro. So, I took out a napkin, because I didn't have any facial tissues, and I blew my nose, into the napkin.
This guy who was sitting next to me decides to cough and the way he did it, was to make sure that he was coughing onto me. He actually put his hand at the angle so that when he coughed, the "germs" were flying towards me. What the fuck is this guy's problem? Is it because I am Asian that the moment we blow our noses, it's because we have SARS? Blowing noses is a very normal activity. Of course, we prefer to do it in the bathroom or in private, but sometimes, it is not possible. I didn't choose to do it without a napkin or to make sure that whatever I needed to clear ended up on this idiot.
The next incident happened on Sunday, December 12, 2010. I was with my mahjong club (the story of a member really annoying me will be posted another time, if at all). I was waiting, along with some other members, for a new game to start. One of these members (not the one that annoyed me a lot) was reading at a table. There were a few empty chairs. Some guy just comes up and takes a chair. When this member stated that you should ask first, the asshole who took the chair spat back, "Well, you don't need four chairs!"
Regardless of whether or not he needed those chairs, one still has to ask. That is just common courtesy. I highly doubted that the member who was reading would say, "No, you cannot take a chair." He wasn't using it... He was willing to let it go. He just expected to be asked.
The last incident happened today on the metro. I was on my way to breakfast at Chez Cora after getting some wine for Christmas parties. An older gentleman, along with a younger lady got onto the metro. The younger lady needed the assistance of a cane to walk. This older gentleman, in an entitled fashion, took the nearest seat and made the younger lady with the cane walk through the metro to the next nearest seat. Granted of course, she didn't have to walk too too far, but what the hell? I'm all about respect and giving seats to older people. However, between an older individual who has perfect use of both their legs and a younger person who needs a cane to walk... I think the person with the cane needs a seat closer than an older individual who have the perfect use of both their legs. Sorry, person with cane, even though younger, trumps person without cane and have the perfect use of both legs.
Just like in
Mambo Italiano, "What is this world coming to?!!"
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