A comment that made me think a little

I was having a talk with someone about the guy with potential, i.e. the guy that gives me butterflies in my stomach. And she made a good point: "If he's married to his job, maybe he's not meant for you... Perhaps not in this lifetime."

I made the point that he was in a ten year relationship before hand, but she told me that apparently, people put up with a lot. So, I would have to investigate the level of commitment.

This is an interesting point... Maybe he's meant for me, but not in this lifetime. Or perhaps in my last lifetime, I was too busy for him, and now, he's too busy for me. Yet another interesting viewpoint.