radoboist's journey in the world (of love, of studies, of whatever...)

A look into how a hopeless romantic copes with what life throws at him... Regardless if it is romance related or not...

Wednesday, January 23, 2008

Boy, don't I feel attractive

So, I found out last Saturday that the dude whom I was interested in for two months, and whom I spent two months chasing after, and would leave two messages every week on his voicemail, to try and keep the lines of communication open, was apparently, seeing someone else and dating someone else all this time!

I feel super attractive right about now. I had thought I met a guy with substance, who was very much like me, who was also attractive and intelligent. I was once again Plan B, and was strung along. And then I find out after this, that he is not even interested in dating me. He said that he liked me because I am intelligent, honest, forthright, and when we met, he said that I was cute, but words are cheap. However, he wanted to be friends with privileges... So, I'm not attractive enough to date, but I'm tolerable enough for when he's not seeing anyone, and he's horny. You cannot have your cake and eat it too.

And then this dude tried to invite me over to his place for dinner. And then when I jokingly asked, "What's for dinner?", he got all huffy and angry and lectured me about how when someone invites you over for dinner, you say yes or no. And then he left me hanging.

I've cracked out my angry girl music already. * Sigh *

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2 Comments:

At 10:38 PM, Blogger echomyst said...

You have some really rotten luck with finding someone with substance.

Maybe that's why I've always been attracted to guys who are older than me -- they're generally more mature and appreciate me more for my personality rather than physical appearance. They're also more ready to settle down instead of date around for the heck of it.

Time to change your targeted demographics?

 
At 10:59 PM, Blogger radoboist said...

This guy was 36... He was 10 years older than me... He's an older man... I think I am a bit inexperienced in the romance world, so I tend to not see the red flags.

 

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