Relationship and Responsibility...
Something I learned last night via the hands of *Raoul made me write up this post.
*Rupert is training at a camp and will return this evening.
When *Raoul moved back to Montreal for his post, he got an apartment here and the whole nine yards... He also went as far as to adopt a puppy at the SPCA, a nice husky (probably mixed bred) puppy.
Then yesterday, while I was at *Raoul's condo, I noticed that his doggy wasn't there. So, I inquired about it... It turns out that *Raoul gave the puppy back up for adoption.
Here is my big beef with this. It's not just a relationship rant about this couple, but any relationship.
If you are not ready to have an animal in your house and on top of that a relationship... Don't get one! It's that simple. Animals are not things that you can discard whenever you don't feel like having them. They will always be around. It's a living thing... You can't just bring it back to the animal shelter just like that. It's not a sweater.
I realize that people make mistakes. They think that they can handle the relationship and the animal... I know that. However, my big beef with this particular situation is that all the signs were there that *Raoul wasn't ready for an animal... Especially since he was counting on *Rupert to help him with it and all the signs pointed to *Rupert as the type that doesn't lift a finger to do anything, with the exception to maybe put on his own clothes or feed himself. Maybe go shopping for clothing or a new computer.
I feel really bad for the doggy in question... He was a cute doggy. I know that I'm not ready for an animal, or else I would have taken it off of these two...
Labels: rants, relationships