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Sunday, September 25, 2005

In his eyes?

So, just to clarify, I am not talking about the song sung by Kylie Minogue, In Your Eyes...

Raoul and I were talking today, and me mostly because I was being civil, but Raoul gave me advice about looking at the person's eyes. (This was towards the end, at the beginning, I had to wade through all the stuff about him approaching people he wanted to date or whatever). He told me that the people who are faking to be shy will not show it in their eyes. The people who are truly shy will have fear in their eyes, because they are afraid of getting hurt.

I suppose that this could be extended to people who may not be shy as well... When they are talking to you, if they are semi-interested, then they may show it in their eyes as well, the fear of getting hurt.

So, the question is: Did my eyes not show that I was afraid of getting hurt? (in the case with Raoul)

1 Comments:

At 9:45 AM, Blogger B-Rex said...

Oh Rad, by him telling you how a person is 'supposed' to look when they're actually feeling a certain emotion should signal to you that he is just as immature and scared as the rest of us...maybe moreso. When it comes to matters of the heart, people act all sorts of ways-and for us to to generalize how a certain emotion is supposed to be conveyed in others is a load of bullshit. When you generalize, that's when your genuine self fades...act how you want to act, not how you're supposed to.
As always, ONE love Rad.
Have a beautiful day.

 

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