radoboist's journey in the world (of love, of studies, of whatever...)

A look into how a hopeless romantic copes with what life throws at him... Regardless if it is romance related or not...

Sunday, October 23, 2005

Thank you for completely ruining my evening last night

Last night, I decided that I would head to the bar to relax, have fun and have a few drinks, because I was really productive during the day. I finished two math assignments (of three that are due), and the Math Education assignment (well, not finished, but I had written up something as a possible answer to a question, and sent it off to a friend to see what she though, because we are handing in the question together).

I got to the bar, ordered a beer, and walked around... Met someone with whom I chatted with last week, so we started chatting, and then I went and walked around a bit more...

At about 12:10 a.m., a guy whom I met the first week I was there, (and did some stuff with) showed up, so I said hi and started chatting. Of course, he was telling me how he missed me and how he likes me, and how he's going to be rich and was offering me a chance to be with him... basically was trying to get in my pants again... So, when I told him that I wasn't too sure what I wanted, etc., he said that I was too young for him anyway, and he also said, "Oh, I'm finished with , I will never come back."

But of course, he was lying, because I saw him later still in the bar, totally running his hands over two other guys. And then when I was chatting with my friend (with whom I chatted with earlier on in the evening), he was totally giving me dirty looks and the like... What a jealous guy! (From now on, the guy who wanted to get in my pants will be referred to as Jealous Guy (JG for short) So, I was continuing chatting, and then I told the guy whom I was chatting with (not JG) that I felt uncomfortable, and I told him that I think I was going to go and/or get a beer. As I was by myself, thinking about whether to leave or to get a beer, JG came out and basically gave me shit, about how the guy I was chatting with was a lot older than he was, and how I must have fooled around (baiser) him. I told JG that no, I was just chatting with him, and he said that I was lying. So, I told him that I was telling the truth, but if you chose to not believe me then that's fine. The evening concluded with him giving me his e-mail, which I took down on a piece of paper and a pen.

This completely ruined my evening... How can someone like that be so jealous? Like one night, and you know who you want to spend your life with for the rest of the night? And I can't even talk to other people? This was completely ridiculous... If I were involved in this relationship, I can see where things go... I'd have to deal with someone who is extremely jealous... That's not what I want, thank you.

And I was thankful for being able to vent with a complete stranger before I left the bar... I just sat down, started chatting, told him about my evening and vented. That was sort of a bit of a salvage of my evening, but it still got ruined.

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