I don't get it...

I don't really get this whole love/relationship game of love thing. And it all starts from having dinner with Roman at the restaurant with some friends before going to the concert.

During dinner, he gets a call on his cell phone. From listening to the one sided conversation, I was kind of thinking it was Olivier, his boyfriend. I didn't ask, since I really don't want to find out answers to questions I do not want to know. However, one of the things that I picked up on was the fact that the person on the phone, whom I was guessing is Olivier, was working tomorrow, and therefore, can't hang out with him. Why do people like to go for partners who are either too busy, or treat them like shit, and not for people who will treat them like royalty, who will make time for them? Roman invited this person to come to dinner and as well as going to the concert, but the person declined. If this person was indeed Olivier, I probably would have lost my appetite and went home. But then, I wouldn't have had the fun evening that I had.

I realize that not everyone is a hopeless romantic like me. However, if I have been sick and I have been working for a week, and I haven't seen a guy whom I am interested in for about a week, I would make time to see him, even if it is after I finish working, especially if it is him who is making the effort to try and see me. But then, I guess not everyone is as in touch with emotions as I am. Maybe I am needy, but I do not consider myself as such, since I do many, many things by myself. I eat dinner by myself, I go to movies by myself, etc. I do not need a boyfriend to validate my existence.

We went to the CCR Tribute Band concert, and then after the first set of songs, we decided that we would go to Club Date, a karaoke bar in the gay village to sing some karaoke. We really enjoyed ourselves. I also got to sing two songs. I sang Lorie - Près de moi as well as Jennifer Lopez - Ain't It Funny. The second was Roman's suggestion, since they both thought I sang really well, and I should go up for another round. However this version was not the version on the CD, so I am not familiar with it. At the end of the second song, the J.Lo song, I came back to my table, and there were two other people I met at speed dating, one of whom met me three times, and twice of the three times, he pinched my ass. After we got out of the bar, we went to Tim Horton's, got some donuts, and I found out that the guy who pinched my ass twice likes Tom Finland drawings. He claims it's for the muscle guys, but I'm not so sure. Anyway, I said I like the same drawings, because I like leather. Anyway, whatever.

We took the night bus to go home, and this time, the guy who pinched or touched my ass for the past two times, he didn't pinch my ass. He only asked the two Asian guys to hold up upright while they were walking towards the Guy-Concordia metro station, to take the night bus. Then the night bus came, and they needed to catch it, so I let them go.