Out of the closet...

So, Roman's boyfriend has come out of the closet... I don't know whether or not this was his decision, or if Roman pushed him out of the closet. I find it very peculiar that someone who is confused about his sexuality can have it become crystal clear in about three weeks. I mean, it took me two years before I came out to myself and admitted it to myself that I was gay. Also, Roman was there, when Patrick told his father about him being gay.

If indeed it was Patrick who felt that he needed to tell his father, then good for him. It's great that he is comfortable enough to come out of the closet. However, if it was Roman who forced him out of the closet. All I can say is: "Shame." How can you force someone to come out of the closet? This seems highly suspicious, reeks of self-benefit for Roman.

Anyway, since I do not know the entire story, and details, all I can say is that regardless of motive, he's now out. And I hope that his experience will be less difficult than mine. However, if this outing was forced by Roman, then it would definitely put a strain on the relationship, amongst other things.