Why am I not surprised?

Well, well, well... The drama between Olivier and Roman continues, and for some odd reason, I get all the juicy gossip details. It's like I'm the the press or something, and I have advance passes to this relationship.

Olivier at first didn't talk to Roman because he was concerned about getting mono, and also wasn't talking to Roman, even though mono can get pretty bad. Olivier was basically ignoring him. And now that Roman has found Olivier online, and was chatting to him, Olivier stated that he doesn't want to talk about anything, and he only wants to think about his last exam. Though that is a legitimate thought, it is a bit selfish since he has not talked to Roman.

But when I read those statements on my IM, I literally put up my hands and was thinking, "What do you want me to say?" I only managed a "I'm sorry to hear that". And he asked if I understood what he was saying, and I managed some blah blah about how he was ignoring you when you had mono, and then now he wants to concentrate on his exam, which is a bit selfish.

What can I say? He had someone who was going to treat him with respect, treat him like a King, who though likes to spend time with him, is not needy, who makes time to talk, who makes time to see him, and he chose to only be friends with this person. And then lust after someone who is treating him with no respect, and doesn't make time for him. And not to mention, possibly gave him mono. Perhaps all I can say is I'm really not surprised... The IM/text message that says, "Oh, I saw you at the picnic, and we should connect again" was basically the oldest trick in the book to get into his pants. And though he fell for it hook line and sinker, he also got treated horribly. Is this a "Told ya' so?" or a "Why am I not surprised?"